When something goes wrong, instead of complaining “Why me”?, ask what you can do to better the situation. Most of the time you do nothing. You are not trying to overcome the situation. While asking a question to yourself that what you can do to better the situation? Gives you an awareness of what could be possible . Try to live under possibilities. Positive thinking towards your personality make your brighter side. And after positive thinking go for next step try to make your world in possibilities. Be friendly with yourself, instead of asking, What’s wrong with me? Ask What’s right with me that I am not getting? Then you are close to the solution. When you focus on problems, you will have more problems, when you focus on possibilities. You will have more opportunities.